If you use any of these 9 phrases every day, ‘your relationship is more successful’ than most
https://www.cnbc.com/amp/2023/04/07/harvard-psychologist-if-you-use-these-phrases-your-relationship-is-more-successful-than-most-couples.html
. “I appreciate your effort.”
It’s tempting to become overly focused on things you don’t like about your partner, and to point them out at every chance you get.
But it’s important to highlight the good in their actions. Happy couples express gratitude for each other’s efforts. It’s a great way to make everyone feel valued.
Similar phrases:
“I appreciate that you work so hard to support our family.”
“I’m grateful that you take the kids to school because it helps me get things done in the morning.”
- “I like you.”
The healthiest couples don’t just love each other, they like each other, too.
“We should get some fresh air. Want to do something fun today?”
“I know I’m a lot sometimes. Let’s take a breather from the tough topics and watch a comedy.”
- “I love you.”
This one is simple but always worth reminding. Verbally expressing your romantic love for one another keeps the relationship alive. And when you say it, make sure you truly mean it.
Dr. Cortney S. Warren, PhD, is a board-certified psychologist and author of “Letting Go of Your Ex.” She specializes in marriages, love addiction and breakups, and received her clinical training at Harvard Medical School. She has written almost 50 peer-reviewed journal articles and delivered more than 75 presentations on the psychology of relationships. Follow her on Twitter @DrCortneyWarren.